Thursday, 10 October 2013

How do you deal with your politically correct friends and family?





So here’s the thing people, the blind elephant in rooms all across the civilised world.
We need to talk about it.

We all know that some of our family and friends are very uncomfortable with the truth about Islam. But we know of course that they are in fact well-meaning people – people we would call good and ordinary, trustworthy decent citizens. They want to believe the best of others no matter who they are or where they are from.  They look for the good in people and it is ingrained in them to do that. That is an integral part of the tolerance we have developed in Western Society.

They are just trying to survive in the modern world, stay healthy, pay the mortgage, love their family, put food on the table and have a bit of a holiday from time to time. That’s reasonable of course – we all want that. They don’t want to hear about the bad stuff on the planet – because they can’t see it from their house. That may seem a bit simplistic but …  it is a fact. For them – a terrorist attack is a thing on TV -  a story they don’t want to read in the paper – something that the “ghouls” at work want to talk about but will be forgotten soon.  It is something that affects other people in another country. Oh they will get a bit upset if it comes to their country or their city – but they are sure it will sink into history in weeks at most. What of Islamic terrorism? In their world-view it has nothing to do with local “nice” Muslims - it’s the bad Muslims – the extremists – the radicals who do the bad stuff – in fact maybe they are not really Muslims at all because how could that be.

But there is a serious and confusing problem confronting us here. These friends of ours are making their judgment of Islam from their experience of the muslim shopkeeper down the road or the hijab wearing quiet woman in the public office, (who has her job as part of affirmative action.) They find it impossible to equate these “nice,” “peaceful,” people they meet on a more or less daily basis through the ordinary pleasantries of human interaction, with the global islamist ideology that has the widely declared, unobscured intention to destroy Western Civilisation. So that shopkeeper and that young woman are like a global social camouflage embedded in our society, who because of the crime of political correctness, can very effectively obscure the reality of the Islamic threat.  Those “nice” muslims are the cloaks of respectability over the depraved atrocities perpetrated in the name of their religion.

 We also know a lot of our friends and relatives don’t want to hear about it – they want to avert their gaze, turn a blind eye and give the whole business a pass. The problem is too big, too horrendous, too unbelievable, too crazy to come to terms with. So they react to those of us who do want to talk about it and make them aware – as part of the problem. They cannot understand why it is important to you.
Well - we can see what’s coming – so we are part of the problem.

We – the people who can actually see it clearly – who are trying to warn them - are part of the problem. We – are the crazy ones. The Islamic menace is growing right across the planet – can be seen clearly every day in all newspapers – on all TV News and when we say we have deep concerns – we are the crazy ones. But we are in good company. In the 1930s Winston Churchill was trying to warn the world about the rise of Nazism – and he was shouted down. Really – read the history.  It is classic “shoot the messenger” stuff.

The foolishness of our political correctness and ordinary human decency has played right into the hands of an ideology that is in fact more sinister, more insidious and more dangerous and inhumane that either Communism or Nazism.

So as I see it there are two really important issues here:
The first is how to make our politically correct and generally decent friends acquaintances and family see what is happening.
The other is what is going to happen with the nice Muslim shopkeeper.

You need an answer and I don’t think I have it – but this is what I think might help:

  • ·      Inform yourself – know your subject – keep up with the latest – double check your facts.

  • ·      Connect with people who can help you to be effective.
  • Don’t name call and insult other opinions. Just be calm and try to dismantle them in a constructive way.

  • ·      Get a few effective and undisputable slogans and use them (calmly) all the time.

  • ·      Don’t be crazy. Be polite to the people who try to shut you down because they can’t help it. They are reacting to their conditioning and they have a whole range of slogans developed over many years to fall back on.

  • ·      Don’t put yourself in a position where you are totally outnumbered because you can’t win and it will make them feel like winners when you are shut down. YOU - will look like a looser .

  • ·     Make sure that you check your facts before you tell them anything - because offering up something that is incorrect will just be the leak that lets all the air out of your argument.

  • ·      Be the sane one in the discussion. Of course you feel a sense of urgency – but you have to be more sane than sane. If they can label you as crazy they make you ineffectual.

  • ·      Hook up with the internet in a way that is not extremist.

  • ·      Never talk about doing violence because that will negate all the other bullet points.

  • ·      Never go and do them violence because that makes you no better than them.

  • ·      Don’t associate with crazies who cannot see the wisdom in these bullet points because you will be tarred with their brush.

  • NEVER give up



So what about that “nice” muslim? 
Ignore him. There is no point in getting into confrontations with him because in the modern day politically correct mindset – YOU WILL BE WRONG.
In the absence of an answer I will say this. Islam is growing in confidence and power every day. We know it and they know it (but our friends don't get it.). I believe they will act soon because they will not be able to contain themselves. When they do – the game will change so radically that a storm will sweep over the planet that will astound our good and decent friends. Be prepared – because they will beat a path to your door. 
You will see.
More on this soon.

 I feel like I am on a mountaintop looking out over the world and a lot of people are with me who can see the same view that I can see. They have the same problem I do – their friends object that they are the bearers of such bad news. 

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